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Aug 08

The Purpose of Your Life is Whatever the Hell You Want it to Be

“Everything can be taken from a man but one thing the last of the human freedoms—to choose one’s attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one’s own way.”Here’s something awesome: You get to do whatever the fuck you want.

That’s right. This human life right here, it’s totally free. Forget what other people tell you to do: you’re free to make your own choices.

I know what you’re thinking…

It’s true that there are widely varying levels of privilege that exist in the world, and the kind of options available from one person to the next are not at all the same. I have immeasurably more options for what I can do with my life than someone living in an oppressive dictatorship, or someone experiencing poverty in the United States. On the other hand, someone with no debt and lots of money has more options than I have.

But no matter what, you still have a bottom line of freedom. Although I imagine he was an abnormally strong-willed person, to say the least, the acclaimed author, philosopher, and psychotherapist Viktor Frankl found his freedom in the confines of a Nazi concentration camp. As he said:

Everything can be taken from a man but one thing: the last of the human freedoms—to choose one’s attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one’s own way.

―Viktor E. Frankl, Man’s Search for Meaning

Even if a sick person were to take you prisoner and tie your body down, you would still be free to “choose your own way” on the inside of your heart and mind. I’m not saying that people who don’t take a positive attitude in horrible situations are lacking will, or not living up to their potential. Nor do I think taking a positive attitude in such a situation would necessarily be the right thing to do. All I’m saying is that some degree of human free will always persists regardless of one’s outer circumstances.

So what does that mean?

That means we don’t have to limit ourselves to the paths offered by others.

Look…

People are always trying to convince us that there’s a “right way”, and that it’s the only right way. Your parents, schools, religions, the government, and even your well-intentioned friend – everybody has an idea about what you should do and who you should be while you’re here on Earth.

Go to school, get a degree, start a career, and make something of yourself. Then you’ll feel satisfied.

Marry your perfect match. Everybody has one, and when you find yours you can settle down and be content.

Believe in this god, this prophet, and this teaching. Read this book and do what it tells you. Keep your spiritual rap sheet clean, and your soul will experience eternal bliss after you die.

Buy more stuff! With this car and that shaving razor you’ll be the hottest person around. Don’t you want to impress everybody?

Or the flip side…

Travel the world, meditate, make art, do some yoga. Mainstream culture will never fulfill you, seek happiness in the unconventional.

Despite everyone’s best efforts to convince each other that their preferred way is the “right” way, the reality is…

There is no rulebook to life.

You’re free to live how you want. We don’t have to fulfill any cosmic demands from above, and there is no high score for which to strive.

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